Editor’s note: guest post by Leanne Regalla
D o you ever feel like you’re selling your creative soul for a measly paycheck in a “safe” job?
Maybe you never finished writing your book because you just knew you couldn’t pay the bills with it. Or you set aside playing that instrument when it came time to start really making a living. You think you could have gone farther with your photography, but you know that you’d just end up investing way more money on the equipment than you’d ever make from it.
Most of us have a story like this.
After all, art is a lot of work. It requires putting yourself out there and being open to criticism. Why go through all that hassle when (conventional wisdom says) artists are always poor and struggling?
My Unexpected Quest
I thought the same things many years ago, when I started learning music as an adult. I knew in my gut my job wasn’t the best fit, but it was pretty good and I thought it was too late to change careers. I immersed myself in music simply because I loved it. Honestly, I didn’t expect any returns at all and certainly not financial ones.
I’m happy to say I was pleasantly surprised. (more…)
A while back, I published a review of the new book Decisive by Chip and Dan Heath. I talked about some of the major pitfalls people make when trying to make big decisions where they didn’t have a lot of relevant prior experience to guide them. As part of a book give-away (now over, sorry), I invited folks to share one big decision they were struggling with.
The response was over-whelming.
Many were along the lines of “Should I change careers/jobs or not?” If you read the review, you know that “whether or not” type decisions are dangerous anyway. But this one in particular is troubling because it jumps to a solution (changing careers/jobs) before identifying the problem.
And THAT is a recipe for making a bad decision.
It occurred to me that before I can help you design a career you love, we have to discover and address the underlying problem. If you’ve been struggling with the idea of career change for a while, you probably know this is easier said than done.
Over the next two weeks, that’s exactly what we’re going to tackle. I’ll be running a free mini-course that unpacks the “Should I change” question and takes a step back. We’ll examine
- How to productively reframe the “I don’t know what I want, but it’s not this” mindset
- How to challenge the limiting beliefs that hold you back
- How to discover the real problem you’re trying to solve when contemplating career change
- How to widen your options and prevent a catastrophic wrong turn
- Case studies of alternatives that produced big wins
Finally, at the end of the two weeks, I’ll host a live Q&A webinar on April 20th that wraps up all the material and helps you confidently plan your next step, whether that’s a career tweak or a big leap.
This is a mini-course, which means I don’t want you to just READ about this topic–there are actual exercises to do that I’ve never released before. That’s going to require some work and engagement on your part, but hey, it’s Spring. Instead of cleaning your house, let’s work on the things that are really nagging you.
Of course, there is a catch. Everything in the course is private and exclusive for my subscribers. It also happens to be free for a limited time. If you’d like access to the material without paying big bucks, you have to sign-up here.
All the course material comes down on April 28, so don’t put this off.
Why am I doing this? The No Regrets Career Academy will be opening again in just a few weeks. But as good as the No Regrets material is, I realized it’s worthless if you’re incapable of making a decision on the first question: should I consider a new career? I’ll probably turn this into a paid course in the future, but for now, consider it my way of saying thanks.
Hope to see you on the other side!
T he scenario you fear most is finally summoning the courage to make a change, only to find your new career is far, far worse than what you had before.
As you’ll see below, this is a very valid fear.
This post is a true story of how one of my clients, Emma (not her real name), left a career in music for the money and stability of law, a decision that seemed grounded, rational, and one her family supported. Unfortunately, the change proved a nightmare: she hated the work, and the money and stability she was chasing never materialized.
Emma has graciously agreed to share her story in the hopes you can learn some lessons and avoid her mistake.
The real question is: how do you know when the risk of career change makes sense? At the end of the post, I’ll show you how you can get a “free map,” and hopefully prevent any wrong turns of your own.
I ‘m willing to bet you’re waiting for something.
You’re dreaming about it. You’re nervous.
You can’t wait for the big day–the graduation, the pay check, the promotion, the finish line. You imagine that when your big break comes, it will change everything.
More than likely, it won’t. At least, not the way you think.
Consider the guy who nearly wound up in a Mexican jail because his meticulously planned engagement dinner was spoiled by a yacht and a guy in a speedo. His intentions were sweet, but it goes to show how easy it is to lose sight of what really matters.
Chances are you’ve made the same mistake, though maybe without the machine guns.
A “big day” mentality can be deadly to achieving the life you want, but you can’t really be blamed. To understand the origin of this error, and how you can correct it, we have to go back in time to your very first big day: your birthday. (more…)
W hen you’re trying to solve a really tough problem, your natural inclination is to ask as many people for advice as possible.
You hit up your spouse, your co-workers, your carpool partner, maybe even your mom.
If you’re lucky, they’re full of great and conflicting ideas. (If you’re not lucky, they’re full of lousy and conflicting ideas.)
In your effort to get a diversity of opinion, however, you often forget to consult your best advisor: yourself.
It’s a mistake I recently made myself. (more…)
E very now and then, a client or reader will inform me that finding a deeply meaningful career is impossible.
They want a better career, but not a single one of their options excite them.
They’ve tried to find their passion, but came up short. They’ve tried brainstorming around their existing skill sets, eliciting nothing more than a yawn.
Slowly, the thought creeps up on them: am I doomed to a life of apathy?
Chances are, probably not.
But I know when you’re in the middle of this, the sense of hopelessness can be debilitating. The problem is, there’s no “one size fits all” solution. What works for one person may fall flat for you.
So in this post, I’ll tackle 4 problems that may be plaguing you and 10 solutions to regain your enthusiasm. (more…)